Everyone is born with the capacity to perform anything. Note, capacity, not ability. There are few naturals that are actually born with latent talent where it surfaces on its own without trying to pursue it. But every sentient being in existence has the capability of doing whatever the hell it wants, subject to its own and others' doubts. So to answer your question, hotrcold (um...ok thats a name sure), you don't have to be born with it, you just are. If you want to do it, you need to want it, pursue it, and figure it out for yourself. And if you can't figure it out after you've wanted and obsessed and pursued, then you ask around for people that have figured it out, and see what worked for them, then try to apply it to yourself.
Don't be conned into believing that any of this is based on these super-special abilities we secret people are born with in our genes or something silly. It is all there in your head. Just dive in and find it.
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Let it be known that what we are has never changed; we have always been this way.
Our capacity for anything is a birthright, but that knowledge is a priviledge.
